Sri Bayu Presents…
REKINDLE YOUR PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP!
Give Your Child and Yourself the Chance to Experience A Deeper Level of Love and Connection.
As a wellness centre and spa, we provide a range of services to help our clients rest and relax. It is however DISTURBING for us to realise many of them are constantly stressed out about their children and don’t know what to do.
That’s why as a part of our MIND series, we decided to work with certified Goulding Process SleepTalk® consultants to guide and teach parents a simple and unique parenting process that will drastically improve your relationship with your children.
Do you love your child?
As parents, most of us would do almost anything for our children.
We strive to give them the best possible environment to grow up in. And that’s the reason why we push ourselves everyday. Whether it’s at home, in the office, or to the people we meet. We bite down hard and we preserver on. Always thinking about them!
So, it can get very upsetting when despite our best efforts, our children appear to “rebel” against our good intentions and we have no clue as to why.
This confusion drove us to speak with experts on parenting and psychology and that’s where we discovered, often children turn away from their parents because they were feeling unloved.
And after bottling up this feeling for a while, some subconsciously choose rebellion, anxiety, bed wetting, anger, trauma or other similar “problems” as their way out.
To make matters worse…
Because parents are often the cause for this reaction in their children and don’t realise it, many have absolutely no idea what they did to sabotage their relationship or how to salvage it.
Why Some Children Feel Unloved By Their Parents
Here’s the thing…
From a young age, children see their parents as the “heroes” in their lives.
That’s why you’ll often hear little children telling their friends some of these common phrases…
There’s no problem Daddy can’t solve.”
I’m going to tell Mommy.”
My Daddy’s stronger than yours.”
Mummy’s always there when I’m afraid.”
In their eyes, we’re the perfect human being whom they love and admire.
And I think you can begin to see the problem with that particular frame of mind…
Because, unfortunately none of us are perfect.
We all struggle with our day-to-day.
There are just so much these little darlings don’t see. And even more they will never understand.
Especially living in a fast-paced society like Singapore!
As a result, our stressed-out actions subconsciously implant a negative imprint on our children’s innocent and vulnerable minds…
Through the words we use. The way we behave. The posture we present.
It may seem like nothing at the time, but they quickly add up.
Shaping our children, moulding their minds and steering them towards a dark place of self-doubt and in many cases…
To give you some perspective of the damage we’re repeatedly doing…
Imagine if you were to see a celebrity you respect, who “misbehaves” in front of you.
It could be something trivia like that celebrity was rude to the waiting staff, or something much worse like constantly screaming at the people around them.
Either way… not a pretty sight, isn’t it?
Because suddenly, that “perfect” celebrity doesn’t look so great anymore. In fact, you probably feel like disassociating yourself quickly away from them.
Now imagine if a child saw his or her “hero” behaving in a similar disgusting manner?
It is on a regular day-to-day basis.
And without the wisdom, knowledge or experience to make sense of what they are experiencing.
THE 7 LIMITING “CRIMES” WE COMMIT IN FRONT OF OUR CHILDREN
The truth is…
We’re all guilty of it. Some, more so than others.
And unless we make a conscientious effort to change, it will continue to ruin this “hero” image our children have of us.
To a point of no return!
Leaving behind instead the bitter taste of disgust and rejection from our children.
Ask yourself… have you ever committed any of these “crimes”?
- Talking about a colleague or friend behind their back.
- Commenting at somebody else’s mistake.
- Nagging at your spouse.
- Using the word Stupid or some other condescending word.
- Slamming something (books, bills, your fist) on the table.
- Telling a harmless “white” lie.
- Taking advantage of something supposedly trivia (e.g. parking coupon).
They may seem like simple everyday actions to us. But to a child, who is still picking up life lessons from the world, it shapes their perception on life.
They begin to see that it is alright to cheat. That it is acceptable to despise others. That it is perfectly normal to lie.
That perhaps this “hero” of theirs isn’t that great after all and they were wrong to trust and depend on them.
Here’s the thing…
Regardless of the situation you currently have with your child…
IT’S NOT TOO LATE!
The pressures of society will always continue to affect us but that negativity doesn’t have to pass on down to our children.
So long as we’re ready and sincere in putting a stop to it.
It is one of the reasons why we decided to work with local psychologists and hypnotherapists to reverse the negative reinforcement our children have undergone over the years.
To recharge dying relationships.
To rebuild mutual trusts that have been broken.
To rekindle the feeling of love, lost in children. Because of their parents.
It’s why we decided to put together a special 2-hours content-rich…
“REKINDLE” PARENTING WORKSHOP
This is likely the first of its kind workshop in Singapore which works towards tackling the underlying root of the problem.
Most parenting workshop attempt to treat the symptoms their child displays.
Without realising they first need to treat the subconscious belief, of feeling unloved and being unwanted, lingering in their child’s innocent mind.
That’s the reason some children display the following issues which leave their parents perplexed and confused:
- Social Issues – sudden emotional outbursts, poor social skills, or temper tantrums
- Self-Confidence Issues – low self-esteem, victim of bullying, or frequent anxiety in child
- Sleep Issues – uncontrollable bedwetting, regular nightmares, or sleep screaming
Instead, here you’ll learn how to identify the common issues affecting your child and more importantly, how to empower them to feel confident once again.
Here’s an Overview of What You’ll Learn during this 2-Hours Workshop:
- What to do when your child starts freaking out.
- Why children lose confidence in themselves.
- How to strengthen the bonds you have with your child.
- Identify the signs of child anxiety – have you noticed a difference in their behaviour?
- The number one parenting mistake most parents commit unconsciously
- How to make happiness a daily habit for your child
- Reshape, rediscover, and reaffirm your child’s belief structure
- The power of positive suggestion for children
- How to “negotiate” properly with your child without risking a temper tantrum episode
How to Register
*We have engaged highly experienced and certified The Goulding Process SleepTalk® consultants, to conduct the sessions and we’ve included some light refreshments after each session so you can ask them any specific questions you might have.
Not sure if the Rekindle Parenting Workshop is right for you? Wondering whether the investment is worth it?
Let us start by saying this may not be for everyone.
After all, if your relationship with your child is already perfect today… then you probably won’t find what we’re covering useful as it is meant to help parents who want to improve their relationship.
Or if you’re not intending to apply this simple 2-minute patented process, which millions of parents are already using around the world, then the investment won’t ever be worthwhile.
But on the other hand, there’s a possibility that this workshop will help you uncover the root cause as to why your child rejects your good intentions.
There’s also a possibility you could rekindle the relationship you have and forge an even stronger connection with your child.
And for the small price of a mid-tier restaurant dinner, you will learn how to empower your child for the future. You will learn how you are creating the “blueprint” for your child’s future.
For this reason, we hope you’ll take this first small step to re-becoming the “hero”, your child has always believed you to be.
We look forward to seeing you at the workshop.
The “Rekindle” Parenting Workshop is specially designed to help parents develop powerful relationships with their children.
This Workshop is Especially for Parents with Children Suffering from:
- Social Issues
- Self-Confidence Issues
- Sleep Issues